I couldn't sleep last night, so I tried to sleep in this morning to make up for it. That didn't work too well, either. While I lay there trying to sleep, I started thinking, for some strange reason, about my friend Grace. Grace was my roommate for a short time, and during that year or so she had a big effect on my life. Which started me thinking about life changers in general. People about whom you think, "If I had never met her, my life would definitely be completely different."
I think they fall into three categories: those who have a passing but profound influence, those who stick around forever, and something in between. So I thought I'd do a little series of posts about three big life changers I have known, one in each categry. I'll start with Grace, since she's the one who got me thinking about all of this in the first place.
Grace is my "something in between." I met Grace at a time in my life when things were pretty crappy. I was in a job I didn't like and generally feeling not so good about myself. I was in school to change careers but lacked a lot of confidence. Also, my health kind of stank. Fitness? Eating right? Ha!
Grace is exactly the opposite of how I was then: she is very sure of herself, has a
career she loves and is amazing at, and just generally projects happiness and healthfulness. The lady does Iron Man triathlons, for Lord's sake. And qualified for the Boston Marathon
at the Boston Marathon. She's also super pretty. All of this makes her sound very easy to resent, but Grace is also an incredibly warm, caring, and funny person.
I went to college right along the Boston Marathon route, and watching the runners every year always made me wish I could be one of them. When we first met, Grace mentioned that she ran marathons, which resparked in me the desire to run myself. It seemed crazy for a girl who had never run more than a few miles at one time to think of running 26.2 miles, but Grace also introduced me to BostonFit, a marathon training program geared towards people like me (complete beginners). She encouraged me, offered tips on healthy eating and cross training, and answered all of my ridiculous questions (such as, How do you go to the bathroom during a marathon?). She was very understanding about my ridiculous timidity around big groups of strangers.
That fall, I completed my first marathon at Chicago. I have since run a bunch of shorter distances, two half marathons, another marathon (Dublin), and I'm training for Berlin this September. After two years with BostonFit, I helped to coach their half-marathon team during my third (and, sadly, final) year. I also don't think it's a coincidence that starting running and finding a full-time job in my new career coincided almost exactly. And, it almost goes without saying, I am about a million times fitter and healthier than I was before I met Grace.
Grace and I are still friends, although we of course aren't in nearly as much contact as when we were roommates. I think of her a lot, though, and especially whenever I'm running a race. And I try
not to think what my life would be like if I hadn't met Grace.
I'd love to hear about your life changers... c'mon, everybody has them. Meet me in the comments.